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Buying Your First Vibrator
from Mistress Missi
For more advice, email: ask@feelpurebliss.com


Q: I've never owned a sex toy before but I want to try a vibrator. What do you suggest for beginners?


A: Unlike most other subjects, this is one that I would NOT give you the advice to "start with the basics". Sex toys are like anything else in life; you need to experiment a little to find out what you prefer. If you just buy the first (or cheapest) vibrator you see, you're most likely going to be disappointed in your first toy experience. (We don't want that to happen!) Here are two suggestions for types of toys that vibrate:

The Vibrator.
--Most vibrators are shaped like the shaft of a penis, however, vibrators that are made for G-spot stimulation will have an angled head. I would not suggest a G-spot vibrator for a beginner, for the simple fact that the G-spot is a little more difficult to find than the
clit.
--The size and the color you choose is your personal preference, obviously. I would recommend choosing a size that is close to your partner's size or smaller. (This is so your muscles don't get stretched out.) Pure Bliss even offers a kit that actually allows you to clone your partner's penis!
--Each vibrator is also equipped with one or more function(s). Functions can differ from various speed settings to pulsating, escalating, and so on. When selecting your first vibrator, look for ones that have a clit stimulator. The clit stimulator is a small,
vibrating bullet built onto the shaft of the vibrator. As a rule of thumb, the smaller the bullet in the clit stimulator, the more power to vibrate it (the stimulator) will have. (You want the most power possible to intensify your orgasms.)

The Bullet/Egg.
--If penetration isn't your thing, a bullet or egg may be the best choice for you. Bullets are small vibrators that are designed for clitoral stimulation. They are discreet, easy to use, and don't get in the way if you want to use them during intercourse.
--As with vibrators, bullets come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors.
--Bullets may be used externally on the clit or may also be inserted internally if you wish. Some bullets actually come with two bullets so you can have it both ways at once!
--The same rules apply to bullets that apply to clit stimulators as far as power goes. My favorite bullet is about an inch long, has seven functions, and requires two AA batteries.

Final Tips.
--Avoid buying toys that require the small watch batteries. They won't give you the vibration you need.
--Do your research before buying. If you're buying at a retail store, have the clerk put batteries in the toy and see how it works. If you're buying from an online store (such as Pure Bliss), read the reviews about the product you're interested in. (You can also check
the section titled "Items Getting A lot of Buzz" on the Pure Bliss website to see which specific items I suggest.)

I'm not going to tell you that 100% of your toy adventures will be perfect, but I hope this advice gives you something to think about (and possibly try)!